Wednesday, August 27, 2008

What's In A Card?

A bright yellow box sits on my top closet shelf. Inside it's full of cards that people have sent me over the years and I take it out on rare occasions to remind myself of the past. I imagine myself in my eighties pouring over it's contents smiling, gently stroking a few, shedding some tears, feeling nostalgic remembering very important times and people who have come, gone, and stayed in my life. I'm sure it has something to do with having a moon in Pices.
Some of the cards are from important occasions, like graduations, milestone birthdays, some are from significant times such as hospitalizations, a life threatening illness, and the death of my mother. Some are from people I didn't have much contact with, but impacted my life in a big way. Some are from old lovers. The cards are all neatly organized, bundled in rubber bands that I replace every so many years. All these cards are very special to me, otherwise I wouldn't have schlepped them around for fifty-eight years.
Even though I love them all, I do have some favorites, most of those happen to be handmade. One is a card my brother made for me when I was seven and in the hospital. I love how he signed it "love from your brother, Arren Conrad" (I might not know who he was otherwise). It even has a little window cut out with old glitter still hanging on, inspite of all the times I've shuffled through the box. There's one my best friend made for me when we transitioned to high school, with a coupon and award for being such a good friend (I don't even know where she lives today). Another holiday card made with tinfoil, addressed to 'my best buddy' from a college friend who passed away far too young. Beautifully brightly colored cards from some of my former students, that make me smile with all the little details that later you realize the kids paid attention to. One of my students made me a birthday card with Minnie Mouse (he knew I was a big Disney fan), a picture of me with dangly earrings (which I often wore), my pink breast cancer awareness pin on my lapel, and a picture of him hanging out of a car window signing 'I love you' (he was deaf) and I can see his mom sitting in the front seat driving him away.
Ahh yes, a card can say and tell us many things, especially one that is from the heart.

2 comments:

K. Eds said...

Hi Dorrine!!! Cool Blog. I like reading blogs when I actually know the people. Those stories about your cards are cool. I look forward to read more in the future. Maybe you'll inspire me to have a blog. That'd be a new one for me. take care- One of your Texas nieces- K. Fisher

Dorrine Conrad said...

Hi Kelly,
What a nice surprise to get your note! I still can't believe I've become a blogger, Ann actually inspired me to write it.
I'll look forward to reading yours. Thanks again for getting us all 'Linkedin'.
Best,
Dorrine